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'We are blessed': Mount Airy couple celebrates 77 years of marriage

'We are blessed': Mount Airy couple celebrates 77 years of marriage
LANEY THANK YOU. A MOUNT AIRY COUPLE IS CELEBRATING A MAJOR MILESTONE TODAY. BOBBY AND FRANCES HOLDER HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 77 YEARS. YOU’LL LOVE THIS STORY. MARIA DEBONE SAT DOWN WITH THEM TO FIND OUT THEIR SECRET TO A LONG AND HAPPY MARRIAGE. THIS IS FRANCES AND BOBBY HOLDER, BOTH 93 YEARS OLD NOW, BUT YEARS AGO THEY WERE JUST TEENAGERS LIVING IN MOUNT AIRY. FRANCES SAYS A TRIP TO THE GROCERY STORE LED TO LOVE. BUT SHE ASKED MY BROTHER, WHO ALSO WORKED. I SAID, WHO IS THAT? WHO IS THAT? SO THE PAIR STARTED DATING. BOBBY SAYS HER LOOKS FIRST CAUGHT HIS ATTENTION. SHE WAS A PRETTY YOUNG GIRL AND FOR FRANCES, WHAT DID YOU LIKE ABOUT ME? EVERYTHING THEY DATED FOR ABOUT A YEAR AND A HALF AND THEN ON FEBRUARY 22ND, 1947, THE TWO GOT MARRIED. HOW OLD WERE YOU BOTH WHEN YOU GOT MARRIED? WELL, WE DON’T SAY MUCH ABOUT THAT. WE JUST SAY THAT WE WERE YOUNG. AND IN ORDER TO HAVE HAVE FIVE GENERATIONS, YOU GOT TO GET MARRIED YOUNG. AND THAT’S WHAT WE DID. THEY HAVE TWO CHILDREN, EIGHT GRANDCHILDREN, 18 GREAT GRANDCHILDREN, FOUR STEP GREAT GRANDCHILDREN AND ONE GREAT GREAT GRANDSON. ON THE WAY, WE ARE TOLD IN THE OLD TESTAMENT THAT A LARGE FAMILY IS A BLESSING FROM THE LORD. AND I SAID, WE HAVE TO CONSIDER IT THAT WAY. WE HAVE BEEN BLESSED AND THEY STAYED BUSY. BOBBY SERVED IN THE ARMED FORCES, FOUGHT IN THE KOREAN WAR, RECEIVED SEVERAL COLLEGE DEGREES, AND THEN WENT ON TO TEACH HIGH SCHOOL AND COLLEGE. FRANCES WORKED AT A MILL AND THEN AS A SECRETARY AT SURRY BAPTIST ASSOCIATION. IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER AGAIN, I’D VERY LITTLE THAT I WOULD CHANGE ABOUT IT, AND I THINK, FRANCES, DO YOU FEEL THE SAME WAY? MAYBE. YEAH, YEAH, I HAD TO ASK. WHAT IS THE SECRET TO A LONG AND HAPPY MARRIAGE? EVERY COUPLE HAS THEIR THEIR DISAGREES. BUT YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO SAY THAT, YOU KNOW, THAT’S TODAY. TOMORROW IS GOING TO BE A BETTER DAY. YEAH. YOU ALWAYS GOT TO BE HOPEFUL AND BELIEVE THAT IT WILL BE. AND THEY DEFINITELY DID IT RIGHT TO BE MARRIED THIS LONG. I’VE BEEN VERY BLESSED AND STILL WE STILL ARE TODAY. YEAH, 77 YEARS, 77 YEARS. THAT’S RIGHT IN MOUNT AIRY. MARI
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'We are blessed': Mount Airy couple celebrates 77 years of marriage
A Mount Airy couple celebrated a major marriage milestone Thursday. Seventy-seven years ago, Bobby and Frances Holder got married on Feb. 22, 1947. "It's been a long, long life, and we've been blessed," Bobby Holder said. Both Bobby and Frances are 93 years old now, but years ago, they were just teenagers living in Mount Airy, North Carolina. Frances says a trip to the grocery store led to love. "She saw me, asked my brother, who also worked there, and said, 'Who is that? Who is that?'" Bobby said. They dated for about a year and a half and then got married. When asked how old they were when they got married, Bobby said, "Well, we don't say much about that. We just say that we were young and in order to have five generations, you got to get married young. And that's what we did.”They now have two children, eight grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren, four step great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandson on the way."We are told in the Old Testament that a large family is a blessing from the Lord. And I said, we have to consider it that way. We have been blessed," Bobby said.They stayed busy throughout the years. Bobby served in the armed forces and fought in the Korean War. When he got back, he became a two-time graduate of Wake Forest University and a two-time graduate of UNCG. He then went on to teach high school and college. Frances worked at a mill and then as a secretary at the Surry Baptist Association. When asked what the secret to a long and happy marriage is, Bobby said, "You have to be very tolerant and believe the best in someone."Bobby added, "Every couple has their disagreements, but you have to be willing to say that, you know, that's today, tomorrow is going to be a better day. You always got to be hopeful and believe that it will be."They definitely did it right to be married this long. "If I had my life to live over again, I'd want to follow essentially the same path. Might want to fine-tune it a little bit, but other than that, I wouldn't want to change either the marriage or the career or the family or anything. I've been very blessed, and we still are today," Bobby said. The pair said they plan to celebrate their anniversary this weekend with their family.

A Mount Airy couple celebrated a major marriage milestone Thursday.

Seventy-seven years ago, Bobby and Frances Holder got married on Feb. 22, 1947.

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"It's been a long, long life, and we've been blessed," Bobby Holder said.

Both Bobby and Frances are 93 years old now, but years ago, they were just teenagers living in Mount Airy, North Carolina. Frances says a trip to the grocery store led to love.

"She saw me, asked my brother, who also worked there, and said, 'Who is that? Who is that?'" Bobby said.

They dated for about a year and a half and then got married.

When asked how old they were when they got married, Bobby said, "Well, we don't say much about that. We just say that we were young and in order to have five generations, you got to get married young. And that's what we did.”

They now have two children, eight grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren, four step great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandson on the way.

"We are told in the Old Testament that a large family is a blessing from the Lord. And I said, we have to consider it that way. We have been blessed," Bobby said.

They stayed busy throughout the years. Bobby served in the armed forces and fought in the Korean War. When he got back, he became a two-time graduate of Wake Forest University and a two-time graduate of UNCG. He then went on to teach high school and college. Frances worked at a mill and then as a secretary at the Surry Baptist Association.

When asked what the secret to a long and happy marriage is, Bobby said, "You have to be very tolerant and believe the best in someone."

Bobby added, "Every couple has their disagreements, but you have to be willing to say that, you know, that's today, tomorrow is going to be a better day. You always got to be hopeful and believe that it will be."

They definitely did it right to be married this long.

"If I had my life to live over again, I'd want to follow essentially the same path. Might want to fine-tune it a little bit, but other than that, I wouldn't want to change either the marriage or the career or the family or anything. I've been very blessed, and we still are today," Bobby said.

The pair said they plan to celebrate their anniversary this weekend with their family.